Being invited to a kid’s birthday party is one of the worst things that could possibly happen to an adult. As if being surrounded by children and a dearth of party substances wasn’t enough, apparently kids’ birthday parties are also a likely place to bump into a former alleged ex:

That awkward moment when you and your ex show up to the same party #rihanna #drake

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Drake and Rihanna were spotted at a kid’s party in Los Angeles over the weekend, according to E! News. Judging by some since-deleted (but predictably ripped) Snapchat footage of the birthday get-together, Drake and Rihanna reacted to each other’s presence in the exact same way that you or I might react if placed in a similar situation: They kinda just ignored each other.

In the footage, Rihanna is seen interacting with the children. Drake, at one point, is filmed appearing to attempt a jacket zip-up on a jacket that has already been completely zipped up. So, you know, they were both doing the same stuff anyone would be doing when trapped at a child’s birthday party with an alleged ex. The key is to remain as busy and engaged with literally anyone or anything else, thus ensuring neither of you has to acknowledge the other at all.

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