It’s not too far-fetched to say that Oprah Winfrey has reached peak success (and still climbing) with all of her endeavors. From running her OWN network and executive producing a host of successful shows to starring in films to her public speaking sessions, the media and lifestyle titan is living the good life. That goes for her love life, as well.

Stedman Graham has been by Oprah’s side for over 30 years and the excitement between them is still going strong. The two of them still actively engage in date nights, where Oprah is known to really get down in the kitchen and whip up his favorite meal: black-eyed peas and cornbread. Not only is the dish delicious, but let’s just say that Stedman really, really loves Oprah when she makes it.

“The wonderful thing about Stedman is, all the years I’ve been cooking for him, no matter what it is, even if it’s a piece of toast — Like the other day I made an English muffin and he’s like, ‘Where did you get this English muffin?!’ I’m like, ‘It’s an English muffin,’” she said on a Twitter video of their perfect date night. “So he is delighted with anything I make. So my favorite date night is to make him black-eyed peas and cornbread as a surprise for dinner, and then honey, hush! That’s all you need. Little black-eyed peas, cornbread. That’s it. Perfect date night. Me cooking, and then…it’s on.”