Singer, Ray J, best known for his song, One Wish, or maybe he’s best known for his sex tape with Kim Kardashian, either way Ray J has no regrets for his past decisions.

Ray welcomed his daughter, Melody, into this world with his wife, Princess Love and is completely focused on being the best father and husband he can be but that doesn’t mean he’s ashamed that he ‘hit it first.’ In a recent interview, Ray J stated, “I don’t regret anything I’ve done. Not even the sex tape, it’s shaped me into the person I am today and helped me find The One.” He then went on to share his only regret saying,”My only career regret is the way I was removed from the Big Brother House.”

Having a child seems to have helped Ray J grow out of his petty ways and he even opened about his newly found respect for women after witnessing his wife endure 24 hour labor. “Seeing Princess go through such a terrifying labor and only get an epidural in the twenty-seventh hour has really made me look at women differently. It was the most emotional experience of my life,” Ray J expressed.

For old times sake, view Ray J’s ‘I Hit It First’ directed to Kanye West and Kim Kardashian below.