T.I. is back in the hot seat. During an interview with Ladies Like Us podcast on Tuesday (Nov. 5), the father of seven sought it necessary to speak about his daughter’s virginity, and the internet had lots to say about it.

Tip revealed that he accompanies his 18-year-old daughter, Deyjah, to the gynecologist every year, to ensure that her “hymen is still in tact.”

The subject came up when Tip was asked if he talked to his daughter about sex. As he explained, Deyjah is a college freshman trying to find her way in the world. “She’s attending her first year of college, figuring it out for herself,” he said. “And yes, not only have we had the conversation, we have yearly trips to the gynecologist to check her hymen.”

He added that a doctor explained other ways in which the hymen can be broken that don’t involve intercourse, including horseback riding and playing sports. “So I say, ‘Look, Doc, she don’t ride no horses, she don’t ride no bike, she don’t play no sports. Just check the hymen, please, and give me back my results expeditiously.’”

The admission sparked discussions on toxic masculinity, parental boundaries, and gender bias. Most of the reactions disagreed with Tip’s approach and many found it disturbing that he would not only share her personal business with the world, but detail the level of control that he hopes to maintain over his adult daughter. Others pointed out that Tip took a different approach when speaking to his 14-year-old son, King, about sex.

And it looks like she agrees with the internet. The teenager liked a few tweets calling her father out for his comments including one tweet that read, “this is disgusting possessive and controlling.”

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